Reflect, reflect, reflect. Regularly pull away to meditate, contemplate, reflect and to pray. An unexamined life is not worth living because the pull to conform has always been too great. Our lives will always ”drift” in the direction of conformity if we lose our directional and spiritual bearings. Withdraw often. Review your list of values and reflect on the current trajectory of your life and your spirituality. Is it headed towards the end you desire… or just following the easy road of everyone else? Ask God's for guidance in every area of your life, surrender to Him and make time for inspiring reading. ( the Bible would be my choice.)
Your life is valuable. It is the greatest asset you own. It holds potential for great things. Don’t let it slip into mediocrity by choosing to live it just like everyone else. It is not a worthy trade.